Get her to Spend the Night at your Place

If your date went well, there’s a big possibility that you asked her if she wanted to come inside. Or maybe the date took place in your apartment, it doesn’t really matter.

What matters is what you do after you have turned her on. You can be the sexiest guy in the world, but if your apartment looks like trash, it will be very hard to “convince” her to stay.

It has happened to me a couple of times. A cute girl in my apartment. We kiss, I put on some music, we kiss some more. After a while she has to go to the bathroom, and when she gets back, she is suddenly in a rush to leave.

Quick kiss goodbye, and then I just sit there, puzzling about what it could be I had been doing wrong.

Chances are, I didn’t (directly) do anything wrong. She just didn’t feel secure at my place, and when I look back, I really can’t blame her. Pizza boxes on the floor, the toilet seat had been left up, and yeah, you get the picture.

Here are 8 easy things I could have done to make her stay:

• Show her around
  This is really easy, and can be great fun, too. Take her hand and show her how you live. I know that there’s story’s behind almost everything that you own, but you can easily save those for other times. Just show her the bathroom, so she knows where it is. And show her the kitchen (that I am sure that you do not use). In other words, make her feel at home.
• Fix your bathroom
  This is a big one! Remember that girls sit down they pee. Always stock up on toilet paper, clean the floor, wipe the mirror (or if you don’t have a mirror, get one) and always have clean towels in your bathroom.
• Clean up your mess
  Really important. Few things are more disgusting than old food, dust, hair, nails etc. in your apartment. You should also remember to take out your trash. Common sense, really.
• Keep an extra toothbrush
  She’ll definately appreciate it.
• Wash your dishes
  Or at least, hide them away.
• Pillows in the couch
  For the coziness factor. Candles everywhere are a big plus, too.
• Soft sheets
  If you get to move into the bedroom, always keep fresh and soft sheets on your bed.
• Keep condoms
  Don’t feel embarrassed about it. Nothing can kill the mood as fast as a trip to the drugstore.

If you stick to these easy tips, you shouldn’t be having too many problems. At least, your apartment is at your side, and working for you instead of against you. Good luck guys!

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